There are no rules, but be kind

There are no rules for how to [insert task here] during a pandemic. That’s the best advice I’ve had so far, and it came from a member of my family.

To say that the whole thing is overwhelming is a massive understatement. At this point, most of us are feeling it, whether it’s by choosing to stay at home, by knowing people affected, or by being ill.

There have been logistical nightmares, too. Some, like me, have been trying to sort out what’s happening with their children now that educational institutions are closed. This is made even more acute because countries are closing, too. I’m keeping my fingers crossed that my daughter’s flight leaves tomorrow so she can come home before restrictions get even stricter here. This is a time to be together.

I think it’s also a time to be understanding, because so many of us are reeling. So I’m not mad at some of the tone-deaf marketing that’s hit my inbox, because it was probably scheduled in advance (as subsequent apologies proved).

I’m not mad at the people who are marketing to ensure they can feed their families. With two projects gone due to #coronavirus, I’ll have to start doing that myself, but not this week. I’m not quite there yet.

And I really appreciate the people who are offering useful, free advice to help others navigate the thorny waters of remote work (I’ll offer mine, too, if anyone wants it). And I appreciate the people who are sharing resources to keep us informed and entertained.

If this past week and month have taught me anything, it’s to expect the unexpected. Things are changing rapidly, and it’s ok to be thrown by that. Still, my own mantra for living is, wherever possible, err on the side of kindness.

I think that’s more important than ever now.